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Just Be Glad They're Dressing Themselves

July 22, 2008
Apparently clothing manufacturers have caught onto the idea that kids randomly pair stripes with polka dots and clashing colors. Now you can buy "coordinated mismatched looks":

"Think a purple, two-tone dot turtleneck with a multicoloured zigzag poncho and purple-and-aqua plaid skirt for girls, or red-white-and-blue plaid flannel shirt over a blue-and-white striped rugby shirt for boys."

No word on what's to keep the child matching up the proper mismatched coordinates, as opposed to, say, wearing that purple two-tone dot turtleneck with a tutu and green striped socks [as seen more than once in my house, I think.]

The editor of Cookie urges parents to "let kids express themselves"...but then she can't help adding, "but at the same time you want them to look put together and not be embarrassed."

THEY won't be embarrassed! Why should you?
Comments
Cathy says...

I still say there's a time and place for parental "guidance" in teaching our children how to dress appropriately in public. Personal expression is one thing, but let them start wearing whatever they want, wherever they want in preschool, and it won't be so cute when they're teenagers wearing fishnet stockings, mini-skirts and tube tops! (Not to mention those hideous pants-down-around-the-knees!)

Michelle says...

My daughter is 4 and she almost always dresses herself, including picking out her own clothes. They don't usually match by adult standards, but it's cute and she's being independent in a way that doesn't hurt anything and she's proud of what she's put together. Last week we did grocery shopping while she wore a pair of flowered leggings and a plush bumblebee costume. She got more compliments than she's ever received when I've dressed her. I'm happy she wants to dress herself.

And I hate Cookie magazine. Really.

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