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I'm the author of Momfidence! An Oreo Never Killed Anybody and Other Secrets of Happier Parenting, and a mom of four in Chapel Hill, North Carolina (where you can't even buy Oreos at the two wholesome groceries nearest to my home).


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The Play's The Thing!

October 28, 2008

From the News Flash Department: Plain old free unstructured unguided play is good for kids, a British study finds.

Fancy that! A child behavior consultant connected with the "Persil Free Play Initiative," which did the 2,000-parent survey, points out that too many structured activities and not having enough opportunity to play:

  •  undermines kids' confidence
  • increases misbehavior (and possibly ADD)
  • stifles imagination
  • decreases self direction
  • makes kids complain, "I'm bored!"

Now imagine your grandmother or your mother needing a national campaign to point this out to her. Writing about play for Parenting and elsewhere -- one of my favorite topics! -- I've always been most struck by how many parents now perceive ordinary play as "unproductive."

Remember "Play is the child's work" ? Cliches are true for a reason.

 

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