About this Blog

Momfidence! cheers on commonsense parenting and sighs at the rest. How to worry less, wing it more. A.k.a. parenting by the seat of my mid-rise mom jeans.

About Paula Spencer

I'm the author of Momfidence! An Oreo Never Killed Anybody and Other Secrets of Happier Parenting, and a mom of four in Chapel Hill, North Carolina (where you can't even buy Oreos at the two wholesome groceries nearest to my home).


A rare foto in which all six Spencers face the camera! by Charles Harris

Some Kindred Blogs

Yips! A "Puppy Party"

November 12, 2008

Oneupmomship alert: Puppy parties! For just $200 to $500 you get a birthday party complete with a litter of four-month-old pups for your guests to play with.

O-kay!

I threw a Puppy Party once for a birthday...we bought plates and cups with dogs on them, tore pictures from a dog calendar to hang as decorations, played drop-the-milkbone-in-the-bottle and pin-the-tail-on-the-dachshund, wore dog ears and had temporary dog names, had a cake festooned with tiny plastic dogs, and whacked a pinata of a llama who was pretending to be a terrier. Piece of cake. Lots of fun. Way under $500.

The line on live puppy parties is supposedly that the pups are later adopted by hosts and guests, but this seems a bit far-fetched to me. I'm sure it's fun for the kids but is it for the pups? Is it different from renting ponies to ride (which seems OTT too)? Feels like another way to make parties more complicated & elaborate than they need to be...

Momfidence is...

Throwing birthday parties that involve no creatures wilder or more likely to bite than a passel of kids.

Comments
Claudia says...

Having just lived through our first puppy year with 4 young children, I have to butt in and say that children and puppies do not mix well!!! I think this type of party is a disaster waiting to happen.

DD says...

My 7yr old nephew had a puppy party today. There were 10 puppies from 2 months - 4 months, including a mom with her 3 puppies. The kids were ages 4-8. They had a great time and there were no problems. The kids sat inside a fenced in area and the puppies climbed on them and sat in their laps. We adults had plenty of opportunities to speak to the lady in charge. They do breed dogs and eventually sell them. Their purpose in having the parties is to prepare the puppies to live in a home with children. There was never a mention of trying to sell them to any of us parents. I don't know how much my brother paid, although I am curious. It was very successful.

Post a comment

Your name

Website

Email (will not be published)

Subject

Comment



Send   Print